Charlotte’s dating life has become a minefield of vulgarity and disrespect. Instead of engaging with her passions, ambitions, or personality, men bombard her with crude questions and lewd propositions. She revealed that many label her as "the girl with two vaginas," reducing her to her anatomy. They ask if she’s had "two at a time," and when she says no, they eagerly volunteer to "sort her out." Conversations rarely touch on her identity as a person; instead, they fixate on her body, treating her as a sideshow attraction rather than a human being.

One particularly appalling encounter involved a high-profile man she had been dating. After a few drinks, he casually suggested that he and his friend wanted to become "tunnel buddies" in her separate vaginas. Charlotte was floored, realizing he had likely rehearsed the line in advance. Though she briefly entertained the idea out of sheer disbelief, circumstances prevented it from happening. Another man showed even greater audacity by bringing his friend to a date and smugly declaring that "two vaginas mean two guys." The utter lack of respect and humanity in these interactions left Charlotte feeling like a checkbox for men’s twisted fantasies, rather than a person worthy of genuine connection.

The relentless objectification has taken a toll on Charlotte’s self-esteem. She admitted it makes her feel like "rubbish," adding that people only see her as a sex object. Exhausted from being reduced to her anatomy and treated as a fetish, Charlotte emphasized that her dating life is deeply personal—it’s not something she can simply "brush off" like a bad day at work. She is more than her two vaginas, yet men seem incapable of seeing beyond them.

Tired of the dehumanizing experiences, Charlotte has abandoned dating apps altogether. She now hopes for a chance encounter at the gym, where she feels she’s more likely to be seen as a person rather than a sexual spectacle. "I wish someone would hit on me at the gym," she confessed, believing it’s the only place she might meet men who treat her with respect.

Despite the onslaught of disrespect, Charlotte’s openness about her condition has inspired gratitude from others. Many have reached out to thank her for her honesty, saying it has given them the courage to discuss their own body concerns with friends. Charlotte takes pride in knowing her story helps others feel less alone.

But the larger question looms: why is it so hard for people to see her as a person first? Why does her condition invite such blatant disrespect and objectification? Charlotte’s story is a damning indictment of a society that reduces women to their bodies, stripping them of their humanity. She is more than her two vaginas. She is Annie Charlotte—a woman with a mind, a heart, and a spirit that deserve to be valued far beyond her anatomy.

As she continues her search for meaningful connection, Charlotte refuses to let fetishization and dehumanization define her. Her story is a rallying cry—a demand for respect, empathy, and the recognition that every woman, regardless of her anatomy, deserves to be treated as a human being, not a sexual object. It’s time for society to wake up and see women like Annie Charlotte for who they truly are, not for what they have.