People liked that Abbie Chatfield talked about a “common” sex struggle.
People liked that podcast host Abbie Chatfield talked about a “common” problem in the bedroom and said she was going to hire a sex worker to help.
Abbie Chatfield has talked about a “common” problem she has in the bedroom. Many people have thanked the star for “normalizing” the problem.
The influencer-turned-TV-host is in an open relationship with her boyfriend Konrad Bien-Stephens. During a recent episode of her podcast It’s A Lot, she and adult performer Charlotte Starr talked about sex.
During their private talk, the 27-year-old said she thinks she’s “bad” at giving women oral pleasure and was thinking about hiring a sex worker to help her get better.
“So, I’m gay, right? “But I’m not very good at that,” said Abbie.
“So I was thinking about getting a sex worker to have sex with her as a learning experience.”
Then, the host of “The Masked Singer” asked Charlotte if it was “normal” to hire a sex worker for educational purposes.
But many podcast listeners quickly disagreed with the adult performer, who said she had “never really heard of that before.”
“In fact, it happens all the time. “At one of the places I used to work, we got quite a few bookings for exactly that,” a former sex worker wrote on Instagram.
“I don’t think getting lessons and exploring from SWrs is given nearly enough credit. This should be the norm,” agreed another.
One man said, “We take classes and lessons and use Google to learn how to do most things we want to do, so why not hire an expert to help us?”
Others liked that Abbie was “so honest” with her audience, and many of them said that they, too, had “thought about it.”
“It’s good that Abbie is so honest,” someone said.
“I’ve thought about doing this myself, @abbiechatfield, so you’re not alone,” wrote another woman.
“I love how you are making things normal,” said someone else.
Abbie isn’t afraid to talk about “taboo” topics. For example, earlier this year, the radio host said she and her boyfriend Konrad were in a “non-monogamous” relationship.
She also told fans when she “finally” got to enjoy the benefits of their arrangement. Last month, she was proud to say that she had some fun at the 2022 Logies on the Gold Coast.
After talking about her “overwhelming” night, during which she cried because she couldn’t get a picture of herself in her beautiful dress, they talked about other things in her life.
“What else is going on? Oh, I finally managed to root someone, which is cool. On her podcast, she said, “Good for me.”
Lem Zakharia, Abbie’s producer, can be heard cheering in the background after the news was given.
Lem said, “Sorry, I had to party.”
Abbie had talked before about how frustrated she was that she was “too busy” to take advantage of her open relationship while Konrad was sexual with other women.
In March, she said on her radio show Hot Nights With Abbie, “The problem is that Konrad is the only one who seems to be able to get laid around here.”
“I’m upset that he’s slept with two different people, but I’m happy for him.”
But I also want to know when it will be Chatfield’s turn. Because I can’t see any way out.”
Abbie also said that she felt “like a bit of a loser” because of the situation.